Missing Someone You Should Hate
People are actually categorized for us. Some are at the top of our lives, while others are right at the center. We like talking with some, and we enjoy laughing with others. With some, we can end a friendship that started beautifully in hostility. Although such situations that can hurt us negatively affect us, they can actually touch some part of our lives. But what matters is that they do not cross our red line, that is, they should not make us hate them.
"Hate burns the one who carries it; it cannot destroy anything else to reach its target."
- Harry Emerson Fosdick
The Transformation of Bad Feelings
Not liking a person makes our mind think that our thoughts towards them and what they can do are not good things. Because "not liking" affects our subconscious in this way. Thinking about possible negativities, what might happen, or what the other person might think of us, are topics that occupy our mind and lead to an increasing dislike.
And then it turns into hate.
In fact:
"Hate is like an acid that slowly gnaws at you as if it were a person."
- Maya Angelou
In fact, "hate" is an addiction. It captures your emotions, and if you had a bond with the person you hate before and this bond later evolved into hate, that's when the feeling of hate turns into longing. No matter what they do to you, no matter what they say, your brain swallows everything. All that matters to you is to fill the void. By hating someone else...
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