Differences Between Modern and Past Romances
Centuries have passed, empires have risen and fallen, thousands of civilizations have formed, ended, and reformed. Unknowns have emerged, and within thousands of unknowns, people have made discoveries. Yet, one thing remained unchanged.
The deep bond of one person to another, in other words, true love. Considering relationships today versus those from years ago, let's imagine we are in a dilemma. Would you prefer relationships from the time of civilizations, empires, and kingdoms, or the love of today?
Although it's not a difficult question, we conducted a survey asking this question to thousands of people. People thought about it, and the majority preferred relationships from years ago. The reasons included answers like greater commitment and higher fidelity. But do you really think so? Let's delve a bit deeper into this topic.
What is love, really? "Love is a deep affection for another person or a profound feeling for another being." [1]
So, what has changed that people prefer relationships from centuries ago? Is it because of increased infidelity?
Thousands, even hundreds of thousands of people have lost their faith in love. Based on this information, we can now answer why people want to return to the loves of ages past. The answer is actually quite simple: it's about being hard to attain. In the modern era, relationships can form easily because the stone walls of empires have been replaced by civilization. Civilization, however, has turned love into a great agony.
What is hard to attain is more valued. Having great values can create an unpredictable blindness, and this blindness brings about the fear of losing. No one wants to lose someone they fear losing. Hence, the saying "Oh, where are those old loves..." emerges.
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